Black Love is a Choice
You do choose who you fall in love with. Don't deceive yourself into thinking otherwise. You control yourself. You do what you want to do. You go where you want. You decide who you date. You know how you feel. You know what you are thinking. You know what your intentions are. You make your decisions based on what you want. All these things lead to who you choose to love. It's your choice. Nothing just happens. That is just an excuse people use when challenged or threatened by a decision they made, that they don't want to take responsibility for.
Some black women are attracted to white men, primarily due to their financial status and willingness to satisfy the black woman's material desires. God did establish the man as the head of the household. Therefore, it is wise for a woman to know that a man who is a perspective husband is mature, responsible and financially capable of supporting a family. However, a black woman should never dismiss a black man as a loser, simply because he is not presently in command of the almighty dollar equally as much as his white counterpart.
Black women realize this:
The white man may be able to give you a house, car and all the material things you want, quicker or sooner, in comparison to the average black man; but remember, it was the black man who MADE that white man. The black man brought and paid for the wealth of the white man via his blood, sweat and tears, working right beside the black woman. The black man built the white man's kingdom with slave labor. If the white man is king, then the black man is the king maker. So who is greater, the king or he who made the king a king? Since the black man made the white man king, YOUR black man, black sisters, is the king maker; and having made the white man king, the black man has proven that he has the power, intelligence and ability to make HIMSELF the king. Never disrespect your black man, black sisters. Don't see the black man only for what he is now, but see him for what he can and will be. When we return to our God and keep the covenant that we made with Him, we shall rule the Earth. Our reign will begin after the Gentile kingdoms.
Some black men are attracted to white women for several reasons they have shared with me:
1)some black men like that white women tend to be more submissive, (because they have be kept), compared to the black woman who posesses leadership abilities; and have always stood beside her man rather than behind. Slavery and racism has also left the black man more dependent on the black woman. Therefore, he has not been able to function solely as the head of his family. Today, many black boys are being raised by single black mothers, whom they have to take orders from. So they like the concept of having a woman who will allow them to be the boss without a challenge.
2)some black men are curious about how it is to have a white woman. They see white women everywhere; TV commercials, movies, billboards, magazines, television, feature films etc., and she is usually depicted as glamourous. So they have been drawn in by the hype that the white woman is the ultimate woman, and they want to have what they perceive to be the best.
3)some black men want revenge against the white man for raping the black woman during slavery; a time at which the black man had no power to defend her. They want to show the white man, "I got YOUR woman now. Take that! You took mine from me. Now I'm taking yours. TOUCHE".
Black men realize this:
1)The black woman has never been respected as a lady since slavery. The white man abused her at will. She was his property. He took full advantage of that. The white man called himself a Christian, while raping the black woman and sodomizing the black man anytime he felt the urge. The black woman not only had to endure being raped repeatedly, but she had to hear the white man saying she liked it. If she vocalized her disapproval, it was at the risk of her life. She wanted to be rescued by her black man, but knew he was powerless to save her, and any attempt to do so meant certain death for him. The white man would keep the black man under control by taking the strongest, most virile black man, who was highly respected by his race; placing him before everyone and sodomizing him for all to see. The black woman had to see her black man stripped of his masculinity. She realized a masculine black man was a dead black man. So she raised her son to be submissive and docile to protect him. A black woman's strength and leadership, (within limitations) is not as threatening to the white race as is the black man's natural place as head of his family and anchor of his race. The black woman had to take the leadership role for the survival of the family and race. The affects of this are still being realized today. Anyone who thinks 150 years after the emancipation proclamation was signed by Lincoln, that we should be "over it by now" is naive or deliberately insensitive. Racism has kept the black race under oppression even until now.
2)Since we are a colonized people, of course the white woman is the face of glamour in this society. The black woman, on occassion, does get her 15 minutes in the sun, but it is short lived and usually not fully embraced by other races of people. The black man must know this society tells the black woman that she is undesirable, unattractive and worthless. Anything that denotes blackness is rejected: wooley hair, dark brown eyes, dark brown skin, full lips and buttocks etc. Why do you think black women straighten their hair, dye their hair blonde and adopt the white woman look? Black brothers, it's up to you to tell the black sisters that they are beautiful, just like they are, in their natural state. Tell them you love their natural wooley hair, and would prefer that they don't straighten it. Generously compliment their dark brown eyes, full lips, dark skin and all the natural black features that they have. Love your black woman and show it. Talk about your love for black women loud and often. Don't involve yourself in interracial relationships.
3)Having a white woman is not the way to get revenge on the white man. You can have a white woman, and your race is still suffering racism, oppression and elimination. Your black race is still the last hired and the first fired on jobs, have the highest rate of unemployment consistently and when they are hired, they still earn less than their white counterparts statistically. Black people still don't earn college degrees and education at a comparable level to that of white people. Our neighborhoods are still run down in comparison to whites, even though we pay the same taxes. Black on black crime is still higher; than even policeman killing blacks, which in itself is high. Most black families are still headed by single mothers. Black men having a white woman is not solving these problems. If you want revenge on the white man, you need to stop dealing with the white woman and love your black woman, children and race. The only revenge is solving these mentioned problems and any other problems exclusive to our race. We are under covenant with God. When we realize we are God's chosen people, and we choose to keep His laws, we will be doing the most important thing for the healing of the black race and solving our problems. That is the best revenge. We ain't going no where without our God.
Black people, we must choose to love other black people exclusively for marriage, sex and reproduction. If you really love yourself and your race, only another black person is going to be your spouse and parent of your child. You are not an island. You are part of a race of people. Who you choose to deal with is a reflection of how you feel about yourself and your race. If you have a special love for your race, then marrying outside of your race is settling for less. If you love yourself and think you are the best and you are black, then only a black mate is best for you. If you don't think you are the best, then you would be asking any perspective mate to accept you, when even you don't think you are the best one for them. You don't do that to someone you really love. When you love someone, you want the very best for them. Love your race more than you love yourself. Never put yourself above your race. No one part is greater than the whole. You are part of the black race. You are not greater than the black race. If you love the black race more than you love yourself, then you will only marry someone black and have only pure black children. If you think you are attractive, then you think black is attractive and you want your spouse and your children to look just like you. If you prefer to marry outside your race, then you don't love your race enough. You are your race. If you don't love your race, you don't love yourself. Don't lie. If chocolate ice cream is your favorite, you will not order vanilla as your lifetime choice.
Some black men want a white woman as a status symbol. These black men want to be white, but can't, so they get a white woman to get as close as they can to being white. They want to be accepted by whites and feel that a white woman will get them through the door.
Meditate on this: There is something a black woman can do that no other woman can. 1)Create a black family 2)give a black man pure black children 3)and build a strong black nation with her black man. Only a black woman can do that. It takes a black woman to get that job done.
I challenge black brothers to research the statistics on interracial relationships and their divorce rates. Several sources I visited on the internet reported that of all the combinations of interracial couples, the one that had the HIGHEST divorce rate was when a black man married a white woman. It appears that most of the black men who marry white women expect one thing and end up getting another.
The combination of a black woman married to a white man has a lower divorce rate than when a white woman is married to a white man. Here is an excerpt from Wikipedia:
"The role of gender in interracial divorce dynamics was highlighted when examining marital instability among black/white unions. White wife/black husband marriages have twice the divorce rates of white wife/white husband marriages. Whereas, black wife/white husband marriages are 44% less likely to divorce than white wife/white husband marriages".
"During slavery mixed children had a black mother and a white father. However by the 1970's interracial marriages flipped to become more common between a black man and a white woman. For years intermarriages generally involved the educated and affluent people".
Here is what the Pew Research Center had to report:
"One of the most dramatic patterns occurs among black newlyweds. Black men are twice as likely as black women to have a spouse of a different race or ethnicity. (24% vs. 12%) This has long be true. In 1980, 8% of black men versus 3% of black women married someone of a different race or ethnicity".
In the last few years, this has changed. Noticeably, blacks are involved in interracial relationships in all income brackets from rich to poor. Men and women both. Black women who used to restrict themselves to black men, are now increasingly engaging in interracial relationships with men of other races, mostly white men.
I believe much of this is a result of the barage of blacks being depicted in interracial relationships on TV commercials, TV shows, feature films, magazines, billboards and everywhere you look. This is being done deliberately. There is a plan for an increase in the mulatto population to gradually eliminate the black race.
More black people than ever are accepting the teaching that we are the chosen people of God who are descendants of the nation of Israel in the bible. It's important to realize that when blacks believed that the people residing in Israel today were the true Jews, marriage to blacks was forbidden; but now that blacks know we are the true 12 tribes of Israel (not just the Jews), suddenly we are being encouraged to dilute our bloodline by engaging in interracial relationships. Any black person whose ancestors where brought to the land they live in via slave ships are the true Israelites of the bible. The 12 tribes of Israel are scattered everywhere the slave ships went. Some of our brethren remain in Africa where we went when we first left the land of Israel.
If we are to become an independent race of people, we must choose to love ourselves. We must commit to marriage, sex and childbearing strictly with other Israelites. In the bible, Israel was commanded by God to restrict themselves to marry within their own tribe to protect their inheritance.
Consider all the wealthy black entertainers, actors, businessmen and businesswomen, athletes and other VIP's who are married to anybody but a black person. If they all had followed the command of God, and married a black spouse, our race would be doing much better economically today. Think about it. The best wealth is generational wealth passed down within the family, within your race. Since so many blacks who have wealth, have married white or some different race, black wealth is consistently transferred to other races, mostly the white race. Mulatto children almost always marry someone white. Because of this, the black race is not much better off now economically than we were since the emancipation proclamation was signed. Our net worth reportedly has not changed much. When will we learn? Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge...
I have been in the presence of white people who confided that they teach their daughters to go after the man who is the most likely to earn an income that will give her the best life, rather than putting love first. Many white women know, they have a great chance of being successful at wooing a black man, who is poised to sign a multimillion dollar contract; influencing him to marry them, as opposed to marrying a black woman, due to the 3 reasons mentioned previously.
Despite a percentage of black people being duped into interracial relationships against the best interest of their race and therefore themselves, (anything that is against your race is against you), it is a fact that about 85% of black men still marry black women, (even though the divorce rate is sky high) and about 92% of black women still marry black men, when they do marry. Over 70% of black women are not married.
The black race has adopted the lifestyle of the slave master. This has drawn us away from the laws of our God. We will continue to suffer dependence on the white race until we realize we are under convenant with God to keep His laws. When we begin to keep the covenant, we will receive the blessings promised to us in the convenant. We will become independent, and be known as the blessed chosen people of God, Israel.
Black people tend to teach our children, when looking for a spouse, to put love first. The problem arises when we also say, "you can love anybody of any race". That is contrary to what God said. Look this scripture up in your bible: Numbers chapter 36 Israel is a race of 12 tribes of black people. God told Israel to marry only another Israelite. Black people are commanded by God to only marry other black people to protect our inheritance. Yet in disobedience, we have married interracially, transferring our inheritance to other races and now our race is one of the poorest. We will continue to experience high divorce rates, single mother families, high crime, poverty etc., until we realize and accept that we are still under covenant with God; requiring us to keep His laws, commandments and statutes daily for our lifetime. When we return to our God, we will reign supreme.